Mike Lawrence Health & Wellbeing

Surviving and Thriving A Year After My Pituitary Tumour Surgery

Surviving and Thriving A Year After My Pituitary Tumour Surgery

The Unexpected Turn

Mike Lawrence Health & Wellbeing

Imagine delivering a two-day Mental Health First Aid course, feeling a sense of accomplishment after a successful first

day, only to find yourself in an entirely different world by the next morning. Overnight, I was rushed to a hospital in London, three hours from my home, and was diagnosed with a pituitary tumour.

The Onslaught of Thoughts

The whirlwind of thoughts that followed was overwhelming. There I was, lying in a hospital bed, far from home, pondering over my clients and my self-employment finances during the challenging times of lockdown and COVID-19. The uncertainty was daunting – would I regain my sight? Could I drive again? These negative, debilitating thoughts seemed unending.

Finding Strength in Focus

But amidst this chaos, I found an unexpected strength within me. I decided to focus on one thing at a time. The first and foremost was my recovery. Hospitalisation was the initial phase, where I battled not just the physical ailment but also the mental toll it took. The next stage was transitioning home and starting rehabilitation, where the love and support of friends, family, and clients played a crucial role.

Reintegrating with Renewed Emphasis

And finally, the phase I am currently navigating is reintegrating into my work life, with a renewed emphasis on self-care. As I write this article from the serene setting of Sutton Hall Resort in North Yorkshire, I reflect on the journey I have been through.

Speaking Out: Raising Awareness

In January 2023, I spoke out about my experience in a press release titled “Surviving a Pituitary Tumour: Why Prioritising Our Mental Health is More Vital Than Ever”. My condition, pituitary apoplexy, results from bleeding within the pituitary gland. Fortunately, the tumour was non-cancerous, but the experience was a stark reminder of how easily we overlook the signs of struggling with mental health.

The Wider Crisis

This experience has made me acutely aware of the mental health crisis affecting not just patients but those in high-stress jobs as well. A report highlighting that 45% of UK police officers suffer from mental health issues is a testament to this grim reality. Moreover, the waiting times for mental health treatment in the NHS and the plight of patients in A&E departments underscore the urgency of addressing this crisis.

The Power of Mental Health First Aid

Mental Health First Aid Instructor Through my ordeal, I found solace and strength in the knowledge I had gained as a mental health first aid instructor. This training equipped me with skills and strategies that were instrumental in dealing with my traumatic event. It’s crucial to understand that mental health first aid isn’t about diagnosing or treating mental health issues. It’s about recognising signs of a mental health crisis in yourself or others and providing support until professional help is available.

A Call to Action

The journey has been challenging, but it has been enlightening. I urge everyone to pay close attention to their mental health and wellbeing. Practising self-care daily and learning about mental health first aid are vital steps we can all take. We must also advocate for better mental health resources and support in our communities and workplaces.

As we navigate these challenging times, let’s remember to care for ourselves and each other. Our mental health is as important as our physical health, and it’s high time we prioritise it. If my story can inspire even one person to seek help or support a loved one, then sharing it has been worth it.

Join the Conversation

Your mental health matters. Join our Mental Health First Aid course, engage in community discussions, or reach out for support. Together, we can create a world where mental wellbeing is not just a goal but a reality. Let’s make mental health first aid as common as physical first aid. Join me on this journey – for yourself, your loved ones, and our community.

Climate Change Affects Our Mental Health, and What We Can Do About It: An Urgent Call to Action

Climate Change Affects Our Mental Health, and What We Can Do About It: An Urgent Call to Action

The Multi-Dimensional Crisis of Climate Change

Climate change is a crisis that goes beyond just melting glaciers and scorching summers; it’s a crisis that penetrates the human psyche. Recent UK surveys show that 65% of the population feels anxious about the effects of climate change. Moreover, women appear to be more affected than men, with 69% of women indicating anxiety as opposed to 61% of men. As for younger generations, a staggering 20% of those aged 16-24 are willing to sacrifice family plans, stating they’d opt for having fewer children to help alleviate the crisis.

If the pervasive anxiety and life-altering decisions weren’t enough, scientific studies show that rising ambient temperatures and increased air pollution have a pronounced effect on mental health. The range spans from general anxiety to a significant rise in emergency department visits for mental health issues.

Immediate Impacts: Mental Health in the Wake of Catastrophes

The climate crisis isn’t a far-off scenario—it’s happening now. This year alone, extreme weather events have made headlines globally, from cyclones in southeastern Africa to wildfires in Chile and Canada, not to mention unbearable heatwaves across Asia. More recently, the return of El Niño has thrown another wrench in the works, raising global temperatures and sparking even more natural disasters. One such catastrophic event occurred on September 11 when Storm Daniel caused unprecedented flooding in Libya, leaving thousands dead, missing, or displaced.

Such catastrophes have a profound psychological impact. Imagine losing your home, community, and sense of safety overnight. These events can lead to many mental health issues, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, and suicidal tendencies.

Empowering Through Education

Knowledge is one of the most powerful tools to combat the climate crisis’s mental strain. Understanding the science behind the events unfolding around us can transform paralyzing fear into proactive advocacy. Consider engaging with the wealth of scientific literature available, from reports by the Intergovernmental Panel on Climate Change (IPCC) to peer-reviewed journal articles.

Practising Self-Care Amid Chaos

Amid this crisis, it’s crucial to remember the importance of self-care. Whether it’s yoga, journaling, or even simply setting aside an hour each day for ‘digital detox,’ these activities can offer a valuable respite from the constant flood of distressing news.

The Therapeutic Spectrum: More Than Just CBT

While Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) remains popular for treating mental health issues, it’s not the only tool in the shed. Counselling provides a safe space to explore your fears, while life coaching offers a structured plan to tackle stress and lifestyle changes.

Building Resilience: The Community Aspect

But emotional resilience is not built in isolation. Across the UK, local cooperatives are emerging that focus on growing organic fruits and vegetables. These initiatives provide a more sustainable lifestyle and a sense of community, boosting emotional resilience.

Regarding mental health and climate change, we are far from powerless. Through education, self-care, therapeutic interventions, and community engagement, we can better prepare ourselves emotionally for the challenges that lie ahead.

Take the Next Step: Connect with an Expert

If this blog post resonated with you and you’re looking for more tailored advice on managing climate anxiety and mental health, the next step is just an email away. Don’t let the overwhelming feelings of climate change paralyze you. Reach out for expert guidance and strategies to build emotional resilience in these challenging times.

📧 Email Mike Lawrence at hello@mikelawrence.co.uk to take the first step towards a more resilient you.

Your voice matters; together, we can make a difference for the planet and our mental well-being.

 

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A Leap of Faith Skydiving for the Mental Health Foundation

Though not necessarily brave, I’ve always considered myself an adventurer at heart. Maybe a bit daft, even. In my work as a mental health first aid instructor and a private practice consultant, I see people who grapple with social anxiety, stress, and depression.

I often preach the gospel of stepping outside one’s comfort zone. But hey, it’s easier said than done, right?

Inspired by our ancestors who braved saber-tooth tigers and trekked miles for food, I took the plunge for the Mental Health Foundation. But this leap was more than just a tick off my bucket list; it was deeply personal. Last year, I had a pituitary tumour removed. That intense experience made me reevaluate my priorities; ever since then, self-care has been at the top of my list.

Now, back to the plane. My instructor, Josh, was a pro. His pre-jump brief was as exciting as listening to a speech by Rishi Sunak, which oddly calmed my nerves. “Place your hands across your chest, wrap your legs around the underside of the plane, and head back,” he advised as if telling me how to tie my shoes.

The plane taxied down a short runway under a cloudless sky. Perfect weather—unlike the cancelled jump a few weeks prior due to bad visibility. We reached an altitude of 14,000ft, and I found myself afloat among skydiving aficionados and charity-driven daredevils like myself.

Josh handed me goggles so tight they made me look like a cartoon character whose eyes might pop out at any moment. Then, the plane’s door opened, and for a fleeting moment, I imagined myself getting sucked out like in a bad action movie.

One by one, people took their leaps. I mimicked a mantra in my head, “Hands across the chest, feet under the plane, head up, wait for the tap, then Superman.” Finally, it was my turn.

As I inched closer to the edge, my brain screamed, “What the bleep are you doing, Mike?!” But before I could complete that thought, gravity took over. I was tumbling through the air, screaming, but also oddly liberated.

Josh gave me the much-anticipated tap. I thrust my arms forward, miming Superman, grinning like a madman. And just like that, the sheer terror transformed into an adrenaline-fueled euphoria.

As we descended, Josh handed me the parachute controls. “What happens if you let go?” a devilish voice in my head wondered. Ignoring it, I swivelled left and right, marvelling at the beauty below.
Eventually, Josh guided us toward the landing zone. “Legs to the chest, then out in front,” he instructed. And we landed like pros—or rather, he did; I was just along for the ride.

“What was it like?” the cameraman asked. “Absolutely insane!” I blurted out, my heart still racing.

This was not just a thrill-seeker’s dream but a defining moment that combined personal growth, healing, and advocacy for a cause I deeply believe in mental health. Skydiving was a literal and metaphorical fall into a new understanding of life and resilience, a perfect symbol of my journey from a patient to the pinnacle of self-care.

Thanks to this experience, I’m even more committed to championing mental health. I took a leap for myself and everyone who has been where I was. So, let’s soar to new heights together in our collective fight for better mental health.

Would you like to help, too? Please spread the word, donate, and let’s make a difference. Because sometimes, a leap of faith is what it takes to move mountains.

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Reflections on the Secrets to a Longer Life

It’s rather peculiar how we often search for the key to longevity, health, and wellness in today’s fast-paced world. Recently, I chanced upon an article – a veritable treasure trove of information – that delved deep into habits that might add some golden years to our lives. From an everyday person’s perspective in the UK, this exploration hooked me. So, I’ve distilled the article’s essence and wish to share a reflective insight.

Now, imagine a life where your choices at 40 years could add another 24 years to your timeline. This isn’t a hypothetical – it’s based on an expansive study focusing on the lives of US veterans. What struck me profoundly was that despite chronic diseases or conditions, adjusting lifestyle choices still reaped benefits.

The underlying message? It’s never too late.

While the numbers vary between men and women, the pattern is clear: each healthy habit adopted adds a few more precious years. Even as a layperson, it’s evident that our choices compound over time. Essentially, a little here and a little there might lead to a treasure at the end of life’s journey.

Now, let’s navigate the choices. Exercise sits proudly atop the list. Over here, in the UK, we’ve seen a surge in the culture of running, cycling, and other fitness trends. Seeing that regular activity could slash our risk of premature demise by a whopping 46% is invigorating. And it’s not just about gruelling gym sessions; even a brisk walk up the stairs counts!

Another alarm bell – opioids. In recent years, the UK has witnessed a steady rise in opioid prescriptions and related deaths. Here’s a habit we need to pay heed to. Similarly, the importance of reducing tobacco use, managing stress, and focusing on a plant-based diet echoes worldwide health guidelines. It’s pretty remarkable to observe how these choices are universally applicable, no matter where you reside.

But let’s talk about two often overlooked aspects: sleep and social relationships. Sleep often gets compromised in the hustle of modern UK life, where work and social pressures run high. Yet, the significance of a peaceful night’s sleep resonates more deeply now.

Meanwhile, social relationships ring truer than ever, especially in these trying times of isolation. Despite our hyper-connected world, loneliness remains an Achilles’ heel for many, making the importance of positive relationships all the more evident.

In conclusion, this article has reaffirmed my belief – that life’s not just about the number of years we live but the quality we infuse into them.

Whether adopting an active lifestyle or nurturing our social connections, every small effort counts.

Here’s to making choices that add years to our life and life to our years. Cheers!

Mental Health Awareness Week

Embracing Anxiety How It Can Benefit Us and Support Mental Health Awareness

As Mental Health Awareness Week (15th – 21st May 2023) approaches, it’s essential to acknowledge that we all have mental health, just as physical health. Anxiety is a normal part of life and can benefit us in certain circumstances. In this blog post, we’ll explore the benefits of anxiety, its impact on our lives, and how we can create a more understanding environment for those who struggle with anxiety. Let’s come together and start a conversation to support each other better and raise awareness about mental health.

The Upside of Anxiety:

Anxiety is often seen as a negative emotion, but it’s essential to understand its benefits. At its core, anxiety is a natural response to perceived threats or challenges. It can help us stay alert and focused and perform better in certain situations. For example, anxiety before a job interview or an important exam can push us to prepare more thoroughly, ultimately leading to better outcomes.

According to a study by the American Psychological Association, moderate anxiety levels can enhance memory and cognitive performance. It’s also believed that anxiety can help us develop resilience and problem-solving skills. In essence, anxiety can be a driving force to help us adapt, grow, and overcome challenges.

Recognising the Impact of Anxiety:

It’s crucial to recognise that while anxiety can be beneficial, it can spiral out of control and become a mental health issue. According to the Mental Health Foundation, around 1 in 6 people in the UK experience a common mental health problem like anxiety or depression in any given week.

When anxiety becomes chronic, it can significantly impact our daily lives and the lives of those around us. Maintaining relationships, performing at work, or engaging in everyday activities may be challenging. In such cases, seeking professional help and support from friends and family is essential.

Creating a Supportive Environment:

One of the best ways to create a more understanding environment for those struggling with anxiety is to start a conversation. Sharing our thoughts and experiences can help break down mental health stigma and foster a safe space for discussion and understanding.

Here are some ways we can contribute to this conversation:

Share your personal experiences: Open up about your own experiences with anxiety, whether it’s through social media, blog posts, or simply talking to friends and family. Sharing your story can help others feel less alone and encourage them to seek help if needed.

Be empathetic and understanding: Listen to the experiences of others without judgment and offer support when appropriate. Sometimes, just being there to listen can make a significant difference to someone struggling with anxiety.

Educate yourself and others: Learn about the different types of anxiety disorders, their symptoms, and the various treatment options available. Share this information with others to help raise awareness and reduce misconceptions about anxiety.

Encourage open dialogue in the workplace: Talk to your employer about creating a supportive work environment for employees with mental health issues. This could include offering mental health days, providing resources and support, or even organising mental health awareness workshops.

Practice self-care: Supporting your own mental health is essential in supporting others. Develop healthy coping strategies such as exercise, meditation, or time in nature, and encourage others to do the same.

Support mental health organisations: Donate to or volunteer for organisations that provide support and resources for people struggling with anxiety and other mental health issues. Your contribution can make a significant impact on someone.

Be patient and respectful: Remember that everyone’s experience with anxiety is unique, and it can take time for people to manage their symptoms effectively. Be patient with those who are struggling, and always show respect for their feelings and experiences.

Spread the word: Use your social media platforms, your voice, and your actions to help raise awareness about mental health issues. You’re contributing to a more understanding and supportive society by spreading the word.

Create inclusive spaces: Encourage clubs, schools, and other community organisations to create inclusive environments where people with anxiety and other mental health issues can participate without fear of stigma or judgment.

Offer practical help: Sometimes, people struggling with anxiety may need assistance with everyday tasks or activities. Offer to help when you can, as even small gestures can make a big difference in someone’s life.

In conclusion, this Mental Health Awareness Week is an opportunity for all of us to recognise the impact of anxiety on our lives and those around us. By understanding that anxiety can be beneficial and challenging, we can start a conversation to support each other better and create a more understanding environment. Let’s unite and use our collective strength to raise awareness, reduce stigma, and improve mental health for everyone. Share your thoughts, experiences, and coping strategies in the comments below, and let’s continue this important conversation together. 💚

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Five coping strategies to help you combat the cost of living crisis

One of the major reasons for this mental health crisis is the financial strain many people face. With the cost of living increasing and energy prices rising, many people are using their savings and taking out loans to make ends meet.

This financial insecurity can cause significant stress and anxiety and lead to depression, sleep problems, and other mental health issues. This puts a strain on people’s finances, with many having to use their savings to make ends meet. Furthermore, a record number of people are taking out loans to cover their expenses, which adds to their financial stress.

Despite the clear impact that these factors are having on people’s mental health, many still do not seek help. One of the main reasons for this is the stigma surrounding mental health issues. Many people feel ashamed or embarrassed to admit that they are struggling, and so they do not reach out for help. Another reason for the mental health crisis in the UK is the lack of support and resources available for struggling people.

Although many people are in need of help, the stigma surrounding mental health issues often prevents people from seeking the support they need. Many people feel ashamed or embarrassed to talk about their mental health problems, and they may be reluctant to seek help because they are afraid of being judged or misunderstood.

To help combat this mental health crisis, it is important that people take steps to improve their own mental wellbeing.

Just like when we are hungry, we refuel, and when our car is low on fuel, we visit a petrol station, it’s important to seek help when our mental health is at risk.

If you are struggling with your mental health, there are things you can do to help. Here are five practical tips for improving your mental health and wellbeing in 2023:

  1. Reach out to friends and family. Talking to someone you trust can help you feel less alone and more supported.
  2. Practice self-care. This can include things like getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, and exercising regularly.
  3. Seek professional help. Many different types of therapists and counsellors can help you work through your feelings and find ways to cope.
  4. Take a break from social media and the news. Constant exposure to negative information can be overwhelming and contribute to feelings of anxiety and depression.
  5. Connect with others who understand. Joining a support group or online community can help you feel less isolated and more understood.

If you are struggling with your mental health and need support, contact Mike Lawrence at 01142 670 081 or email enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk. Remember, you are not alone, and there is help available. Don’t be afraid to take the first step towards better mental health and wellbeing.

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Train as a Mental Health First Aider (MHFAider®) and receive 3 years of certification

This course is for those who would like to become an MHFAider®, whether in the workplace or as individuals, to gain the knowledge and skills to spot signs of people experiencing poor mental health and be confident to start a conversation and signpost a person to appropriate support.

In addition to the course, you will become part of the largest MHFAider® community in England, gaining access to resources, ongoing learning and 24/7 digital support through the MHFAider Support App® to give you the tools and knowledge you need to carry out the role effectively and confidently whether that be in your workplace a volunteer role or in the community.

How to book

Click here to reserve your place, or if you would like more information on individual and group bookings, feel free to get in touch at enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk or contact Mike at 0114 670 081.

Course outcomes

As an MHFAider®, you will be able to:

  • Recognise those experiencing poor mental health and provide them with first-level support and early intervention
  • Encourage a person to identify and access sources of professional help and other supports
  • Practise active listening and empathy
  • Have a conversation with improved mental health literacy around language and stigma
  • Discuss the MHFAider® role in depth, including boundaries and confidentiality
  • Practise self-care
  • Know how to use the MHFAider Support App®
  • Know how to access a dedicated text service provided by Shout and ongoing learning opportunities with MHFA England

Structure

  • The online 2-day course is structured across four flexible sessions covering 14 hours of content in total.​
  • Each session is a maximum of 3hrs 45mins.
  • Learning takes place through a mix of instructor-led training, group discussions individual and group activities.
  • Each session builds on the previous one, enabling the learner to gain confidence in supporting others using the MHFA action plan.
  • Numbers are limited to 16 per course so learners can be kept safe and supported whilst they learn.
  • Learning content will be as accessible and inclusive as possible (please contact if additional support is required).

Takeaways

  • Everyone who completes this course gets the following:
  • A hard copy workbook to support their learning throughout the course
  • A digital manual to refer to whenever they need it​ after completing the course
  • A wallet-sized reference card with the Mental Health First Aid action plan​
  • A digital MHFAider® certificate
  • Access to the MHFAider Support App® for three years
  • Access to ongoing learning opportunities, resources and exclusive events ​
  • The opportunity to be part of the largest MHFAider® community in England

How to book

Click here to reserve your place, or if you would like more information on individual and group bookings, feel free to get in touch at enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk or contact Mike at 0114 670 081.

New course and benefits

The workplace has changed for people and organisations. In the last few years, we’ve seen a global pandemic, economic downturns, cost of living pressures, adaptation to hybrid working the great resignation and a recruitment crisis. It has taken a toll on employees, and now – more than ever – they need mental health support in the workplace.

Mental Health First Aiders (MHFAiders®) are crucial to helping boost employee wellbeing as we adjust to a profoundly changed workplace environment. But while MHFAiders® work to support others, they need support too.

At MHFA England, providing support, building confidence and growing a community to drive change is crucial to us. It isn’t a footnote or a half-hearted line in the small print. We’ve spent 15 years generating conversation around workplace mental health, and we understand that being an effective MHFAider® requires learning and support beyond training.

That’s why we offer ongoing support to help MHFAiders® feel confident and empowered – long after they’ve completed their training course.

Additionally, MHFAiders® receive access to exclusive events to continue developing their support for your workplace beyond the training course.

  • The MHFAider Support App® provides training resources and ongoing learning opportunities so that MHFAiders® can improve their support skills on the job.
  • MHFAiders® can help organise their roles with reminders and secure conversation journaling to reflect on their work safely.
  • The MHFAider Support App® works to support the MHFAider® own mental health – the resources within can teach critical self-care skills with the emotion tracker function allowing them to chart their own wellbeing.
  • The app provides 24/7 text support for when MHFAiders® are feeling overwhelmed or need guidance for certain situations.
  • MHFAiders® have access to regular online events that provide further learning and support, allowing them to continue to perform their role confidently and effectively long after receiving their initial training.

Cancellation Policy

  • Payment must be made before attending the course, as this will convert you to a delegate and trigger the provision of your course resources.
  • Confirmation of payment and your booking will be confirmed by email. If you have not received this, don’t hesitate to get in touch with me.
  • To cancel or reschedule, please be aware that only courses cancelled within 48 hours of booking can be refunded.
  • No refund is available on any booking cancellation before the course start date after the 48-hour cooling-off period.
  • A course booking can be rescheduled up to 7 days before the course start date. This can be rescheduled to either an online course or face-to-face.

How to book

Click here to reserve your place, or if you would like more information on individual and group bookings, feel free to get in touch at enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk or contact Mike at 0114 670 081.

Uncertain Future

Are You Willing To Forgo Anything For Your Holiday?

Uncertain FutureMany of us who’ve not been away due to the COVID pandemic are desperate to get away for some summer sun. Surveys and reports in the media suggest a surge in holiday bookings as demand returns to pre-pandemic levels despite household finances facing a squeeze from surging inflation. Tour operator TUI reports that summer bookings are up by 19%.

Holidays can help with anxiety and stress-related problems by giving us time to relax, have downtime and allow us to use the time to find solutions to problems.

Holidays enable us to catch up on much-needed sleep and rest. Whilst we are sleeping, our brains consolidate information and memories from the day, which improves our mental functioning, problem-solving, memory and creativity.

Holidays boost relationships with friends and family. You get to spend quality time with partners and children, strengthening social bonds. Time with your kids also increases their self-esteem and sense of security and enriches family values.

However, for some, the urge to escape and get away, hoping that the life you left behind will improve on their return, can come at a cost.

Brits Spent up to a Quarter of their Annual Disposable Income on Holidays each Year

Nationwide Building Society’s published spending report revealed that Brits spent up to a quarter of their annual disposable income on holidays each year. Many seem to have no desire to restrain this spending. On average we spend £855 per person each time we go away, then there’s 23% who spend £1,000 or more each holiday, and a family of four could end up paying £3,240 per trip and up to £6,840 in total.

Figures are taken from the online website Moneyfacts reports that the UK’s annual median disposable household income is £31,400. The cost of holiday spending can take up to three months’ worth of income, or a quarter of the expenditure. Disturbingly, not everybody has this money to hand.

As a result, 22% reported that they had to borrow the money to go on holiday, including using a credit card, taking out a loan or borrowing money from friends or family members. Contrastingly, 43% managed to pay for their holiday using savings, while 35% used cash from their bank account, and 11% were lucky enough to have family members to finance their holiday break.

88% of those who had to borrow money said that this was the only way that they could afford to go away. With the average Brit then taking three months to pay off this holiday – and 11% even taking more than six months.

Yet over half (51%) of respondents said they weren’t willing to forgo anything for their holiday.

That’s not all 61% overspend by £250 and 11% overspend by £500 or more.

Then there’s an additional 20% who don’t set a budget, who might still regret spending more than their bank accounts can bear. Undoubtedly, money is one of the most significant holiday regrets, with 25% feeling they had spent too much money. 21% said they didn’t have enough money to enjoy themselves, and 20% thought their holiday was too expensive.

Loss Aversion Theory

One of the drivers behind our behaviours and decision making could be linked to the loss aversion theory. Loss aversion is a concept that people hate losses more than they enjoy gains.

A cognitive bias that describes why, for people, the pain of losing is psychologically twice as powerful as the pleasure of gaining. The loss felt from money or any other valuable thing can feel worse than gaining that same thing. Studies demonstrate that it impacts our judgement, preference, and decision-making process.

Wellbeing activities don’t have to cost you the earth. Many of us know the benefit of regular exercise, walking, meditation or participation in numerous leisure pursuits, pastimes and hobbies.

Imagine the delight of planning a holiday not because you need to catch up on much-needed sleep. You’re suffering from anxiety or spending time with the family because you haven’t seen them due to work demands.

The outcome of your time away is much more rewarding when you regularly invest time and money and prioritise your mental health and wellbeing.

If you’re currently suffering from emotional overwhelm due to the rise in the cost of living or are worried about an uncertain future, or you need help to improve your confidence and are not sure where to go.

Send an email to enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk, and I’ll send you a free guide on what to incorporate into your daily routine. Or contact me at 01142 670 081 for a complimentary 40-minute wellbeing review, and I’ll share with you tips that can transform your health and wellbeing when you implement them. Remember, ‘If you do not make time for your wellness, you will be forced to make time for your illness’.

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Why employee mental health is your responsibility

African wellbeing Sheffield healthMental health is at the forefront of our minds and corporate agenda significantly as it directly impacts productivity and the bottom line.

In a report commissioned by The Royal College of Psychiatrists, the extent of the mental health crisis in England is at a ‘terrifying’ level. An alarming two-fifths of patients waiting for mental health treatment are forced to resort to emergency or crisis services. Furthermore, England is “in the grip of a mental health crisis” because of the Covid pandemic.

NHS England report that mental health problems represent the biggest single cause of disability in the UK.

The Centre for Mental Health claim up to 10 million Brits could need mental health support after the pandemic ends.

We’ve fought with lockdowns, face coverings and mask mandates, social isolation, (mis)communication of COVID-19, remote working, uncertainty about the future, and mistrust. Supporting employee mental health and wellbeing has become a significant priority for workplace morale and motivation. Employees are seriously seeking support with mental health needs.

It’s your opportunity

Employers who don’t take action when employees request additional mental health support often follow a similar philosophy with all other employee requests.

Employers in 2022 will need to address burnout and other mental health-related issues head-on to protect their staff. An excellent mental health and wellbeing package that includes mental health awareness training, regular check-ins, and even online 1-2-1 therapy for job seekers and current employees alike will be vital.

We can no longer ignore mental health concerns

In a Forbes.com article that surveyed workers and CEOs in the USA, most agree that poor employee mental health negatively impacts productivity. When we experience physical pain, we typically get in touch with a GP. In comparison, employees tend to keep it to themselves when they experience burnout, depression, isolation, stress, or anxiety.

Mental wellbeing problems at work cost the UK economy £34.9bn last year, says Centre for Mental Health.

Businesses that dismiss the issue or undermine the mental health of their employees risk not only the wellbeing of their employees but also the profitability and productivity of their business.

“The person you report to is more important than your family doctor – Bob Chapman, CEO Barry Wehmiller.”

Furthermore, the risk for small business owners’ mental health as half still live in fear of future lockdowns.

The National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) and Public Health England (PHE) recommend all employers give mental health training for managers.

The independent guideline committee, made up of mental health experts, employers, professionals from across the NHS, local authority members, and lay members, recommended when offering mental health training for managers, employers should consider including:

  • How to discuss mental wellbeing with an employee
  • Information about mental health and wellbeing
  • How to identify the early warning signs of poor mental wellbeing
  • Where to access resources on mental wellbeing
  • Raising awareness of the stigma associated with poor mental wellbeing
  • Continuous monitoring of mental wellbeing in the workplace

Business leaders must address these issues.

Diverse opinions on mental health in the workplace

Typically fall into three other areas:

  1. It’s not our role or responsibility
  2. Aware that it’s a problem but don’t know where to get help.
  3. Think they are doing enough by training some mental health first aiders but don’t understand how deep the issue goes

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Most employers want to help and support but don’t necessarily know where to start. Many consider and wonder whether having an employee assistance program (EAP) is sufficient?

Before the pandemic, mental health was discussed but not as openly as today. Many employers who offer an EAP are often poorly communicated to employees and underutilised in some organisations.

Between 2.5 – 16 per cent of employees use their EAP at least once a year. With the average around 5 per cent, according to research by Dr Zofia Bajorek at the Work Foundation. The most common reason for providing an EAP was “seen as good employment practice”.

Securing the services of a wellbeing practitioner for your people

This suggestion merits your attention if you wish to support your staff — and want their productivity to soar. While mental health and wellbeing services aren’t always straightforward and the products and services vary considerably by the provider, business leaders should see this as an opportunity to provide something meaningful to their employees’ wellbeing.

For better or worse, this is a time in our business culture where helping an employee with their mental health is not just an employer’s responsibility. It’s an opportunity to demonstrate that your organisation cares for your people.

The evidence is clear to us that all employers doing what they can to help their workforce have improved their employee attraction and recruitment.
Increased employee retention, most importantly, productivity, attitude, and loyalty.

I hope you agree that your people are worth it in the current economic and work environment.

Reach out now and find out how your organisation can benefit from scheduling regular wellbeing support for your employees.

Self Care

What is self-care, and why it’s important?

Self Care The term self-care is growing in popularity, but do you know what it really means in practice and considerations that will directly benefit your confidence – mental health and wellbeing. 

Self-care is the habit of consistently and consciously improving your physical and mental wellbeing. 

What are examples of self-care?

Any activity that you do to make yourself feel cared for or better can be regarded as self-care, such as going for a walk, having a massage, or visiting the dentist. 

Why the importance of Self-Care?

We spend more time planning holidays, decorating our homes, buying new clothes for our wardrobes or planning a wedding than we do for ourselves, why do you think that is? 

You might say you lead a hectic life and you don’t put yourself first, especially if you have a family with multiple duties, a single parent, a stressful job, or a long commute to work. However, taking care of yourself will make you feel better, and the better you are, the more confident you will be in all aspects of your life – from relationships to work.

Self-care doesn’t have to involve an enormous commitment in time, and it doesn’t have to cost an arm and a leg. It could be relaxing in a bath, reading a motivational book, taking time out to practice mindfulness. It’s about committing to putting yourself first. 

The benefits of self-care?

A significant part of self-care is committing to looking after your whole self and becoming more aligned with what you need. Whether it’s more exercise, getting more quality sleep, visiting a healthcare expert to assist with any aches, pains or niggles. Your self-care programme should focus on looking after your mental, emotional, physical health and wellbeing.

  • Self-care can reduce depression, anxiety and stress. 
  • Creating time for relaxing activities, such as practising mindfulness or yoga, plus listening to music, are more familiar self-care pursuits. 
  • Activities to make you feel more relaxed and help reduce depression, stress and anxiety and lift your spirits.

Self-care can boost your resilience and self-confidence 

Throughout your life, you’ll face challenges, whether in your professional or personal life.

A key component of being resilient is understanding that change and setbacks are a part of everyday life.

Psychologists have identified circumstances that form a resilient person. Among them are:

  • A positive attitude.
  • The ability to direct emotions.
  • The ability to see failure as a form of helpful feedback. 

People who are more resilient view difficult situations as a ‘challenge’ to overcome. They view mistakes and failure as lessons to be learned from and as opportunities for development and growth.

While we cannot always avoid them, we can be flexible, remain open and willing to change, adapt and evolve. Self-esteem and confidence play a key component in the recovery from challenging situations. Remember to constantly remind yourself of your strengths and be confident in your ability and approach to react and deal with the setbacks you’ll encounter.

Self-care preserves your mental health and wellbeing

Prioritising self-care can assist in controlling mental health concerns and might even prevent them from getting worse.

Of course, self-care is not a replacement for professional help. If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, stress or another mental health issue, it’s advisable to seek help from your doctor or a health and wellbeing professional. 

Nevertheless, deciding to look to take care of your wellbeing will improve your quality of life. 

Self-care can lead to a better relationship with yourself

Self-care is about looking internally at yourself and your mental wellbeing. The relationship you have with yourself is vital to your mental health and wellbeing, plus developing happy and healthy relationships with others. 

Most people will look outwards towards others for friendship, love, and happiness, rather than looking internally at themselves and developing self-love and self-care. 

Practising self-care and being good to yourself regularly is one of the most beneficial things you can do for yourself.

“The relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have.” Robert Holden

Action: 

I’ve created an easy, effective, robust system that anyone suffering from a lack of confidence, motivation or resilience could immediately apply and benefit from when they work with me. I help people rediscover their identity to feel physically robust and better equipped mentally; ultimately, they feel in better control of their lives.

Please get in touch with me directly for more information about how this can work for you. Email enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk or call 07967 052585.

Mike Lawrence - Sheffield Live  Radio Interview

Business Live: Jamie Veitch’s Sheffield Live radio show Building workplace wellbeing, confidence and inclusivity with Mike Lawrence

Working from home means many business leaders and employees feel isolated; others experience overwhelm and burnout, or never stop working. He has strategies to protect and support you and your colleagues’ health and wellbeing.

Born and raised in a working-class part of Sheffield, Mike now lives in Chesterfield. But as a young man, he had to move to London to access employment opportunities: covert racism in Sheffield proved an enormous barrier. Has that changed? Is the city a better place now for a young Person of Colour?

Mike “could talk for a week about some of the challenges I’ve had to overcome.” Alongside his one-to-one practice in Sheffield, he now works with many corporate firms and large organisations, enabling them to address discrimination, bias and barriers to inclusivity. He describes initiatives and action, underway and needed, to create a level playing field for all.

 

“It’s important we can still look forward to a great future,” says Mike Lawrence, workplace health and wellbeing consultant.

It’s been a year of immense stress: the pandemic, losses of family and friends, concerns for people’s health, living under restrictions, businesses going under or at risk of it, and horrifying injustices. Mike supports people with depression and experiencing anxiety, so how does he protect himself and what did he do differently this year?

Mike is also frank about a period in his life when his own confidence took a battering and how he addressed this, and describes practical actions you can take to protect and build your own.

Click on the link below to listen to the interview.

Business Live: Jamie Veitch’s Sheffield Live radio show Building workplace wellbeing, confidence and inclusivity with Mike Lawrence

 

 

What Will You Miss This Christmas?

This Christmas will be slightly strange for many, as we try to navigate the restrictions that have been imposed because of the pandemic. 

Spare a thought for those whose families reside further afield, in different parts of the country—or, in some cases, in other countries.

I hear stories on a daily basis from clients who haven’t seen their loved ones this year, due to travel restrictions and different tier arrangements imposed in different parts of the country.

“I once bought my kids a set of batteries for Christmas, with a note on them saying ‘Toys not included”. Bernard Manning.

I have many friends, relatives and family that live in London and the South East. Ordinarily, at this time of year, I would be booking train tickets, securing favourable rates in hotels, and I’d be packing my suitcase—excited to enjoy some yuletide cheer in the ‘big smoke’.

My diary would be filled with an abundance of ventures, which mainly involve fun, laughter and excitement.

A traditional trip to Winter Wonderland with my daughters, for example, in the heart of London—Hyde Park—where you can immerse yourself in all things festive, and where an array of attractions, activities and entertainment for all ages and visitors can be found.

This would be supplemented by a visit to the theatre; I usually book tickets up to a year in advance. We’ve seen various plays and musicals, such as Memphis, Mamma Mia, Chicago, Ghost, Wicked and the Lion King.

Then there’s ‘Dreamgirls’… 

The film, based on the 1981 Broadway play, tells the story of a small, black record label and its star singers. Their success crosses over to the pop charts, and it’s rumoured to be loosely based on The Supremes. The movie received eight Academy Award nominations and won three Golden Globe awards.

This is a family favourite and, potentially, number one in our list of top 10 movies. We made a pact that, if the movie was ever adapted for the West End, we’d get tickets.

So, you can imagine my reaction when I discovered that the play was coming to London. I secretly booked tickets for the Savoy Theatre.

Proud Father moment: walking towards the theatre, in the distance, the girls caught their first glimpse of what was to come that evening. They also had a surprise for me, and they demanded that I open a large, carefully-gift-wrapped box in the theatre stalls.

The smiles on our faces were priceless. Moments like that stay with you for the rest of your life.

Drinks reserved for the interval, souvenir programme purchased, we made our way to the front of the auditorium to be seated. The band started playing, the curtain was raised. It was showtime.

The performers came on stage, singing and dancing, against a backdrop of music and smoke.

‘Bring it on!’ I thought…

However, it didn’t really get going. It seemed rather flat, and certainly not as inspiring as the movie.

The stage adaptation didn’t quite live up to my expectations. In fact, it wasn’t worthy of being in ‘our top 10’. That said, Amber Riley, who played Effie in the lead role, saved the day, due to her incredible voice that ripped through the auditorium. The first act closed with the barnstorming ‘And I Am Telling You I’m Not Going’. Enter, stage right, Jennifer Hudson; click here to listen to her version.

I wondered how my girls felt. We nervously chatted about the film and gave our personal critiques of the performances, as we do. Then the gloves came off. The outcome was unanimous: we thought that the movie was so much better than the stage production.

I’m already seeking out deeds and activities for Christmas 2021 to add to my dream board and bucket list.

I do hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas and that you make the most of what you have and the people around you.

Are you looking to make some changes in your personal or professional life in 2021? Maybe you lack confidence and you’re not sure how you can achieve this. Get in touch with me and book your free 40-minute discovery call.

Telephone 07967 052585 or email enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk

 

BBC Radio Sheffield Simon’s Journey of Faith Interview

Simon’s Journey of Faith guest recently was Mike Lawrence. Mike, who works as a Health and Wellbeing Consultant, shared some of the moments in his life when his Christian faith has guided and supported him.
Listen back here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p08srq60
Interview in two parts at 35 minutes and 46 minutes.

wellbeing consultancy during lockdown

How I Continued To Support My Clients Through Lockdown Due To A Pandemic!!

wellbeing consultancy during lockdownMonday 23rd March seems a long time away, but that was the last client I saw face to face in my clinic in Broomhill Sheffield. I remember the session very well; she wasn’t typical of my clients. They are usually aged between 40 – 50, women business owners who are suffering due to the loss of identity and confidence; who have lost their direction in life due to raising a family, running their own business or driven in their career.

In a nutshell, I help them to rediscover their identity, they gain better clarity, feel more motivated, confident, and in full control of their life.

On this occasion, I was working with a lady who was struggling to cope with her mental health. Her anxiety was affecting her relationship with her partner and her ability to concentrate at work.

The sessions continued over the internet using the Zoom video-conferencing application, as have all my client coaching and consultancy sessions on the easy-to-use platform. However, not everyone is using, or familiar with this programme. Some prefer Microsoft Teams, Google Meet, Go To Meeting, Whatsapp, Skype, Messenger or BlueJeans, described by app developers that it provides an immersive video, audio ad web conferencing experience. It took me ages to download and run this application.

I had to learn how to deal with the unexpected quickly, and oh yes I had plenty of encounters, come on, what would you do if you’re delivering a hypnosis session then you hear a loud knock at the door from the courier driver delivering your Amazon goods? Usually, those items would have been transported to my clinic.

Young children and babies seeking the attention of their mums, then you’ve got the family pets who also want to get in on the act. Or you see the hubby scamper through the bedroom in just his underwear, not realising that his partner has someone else in the bedroom, albeit on the other end of the computer.

Do you want to hear my favourite story? I was delivering an online webinar for the South Yorkshire Expo, which involved sharing my computer screen so that I can present a PowerPoint presentation. I’d hosted a similar event for the Federation of Small Business the week before and a few others during the lockdown, therefore, I was familiar with the setup.

I could see all the delegates online in their little square boxes, some with videos turned off, which is something that I learned to familiarise with rather than being irritated.

The host gave an eloquent introduction then handed over to me. I addressed the online audience and proceeded to provide an overview of my session. At this point, I ensued to share my computer screen, and up popped my carefully rehearsed presentation.

All appeared to be going well, plenty of engagement, good use of the chat facility, and I could see plenty of thumbs up. Until I noted a message in the chatbox, saying “Mike, we only see a picture of a brain.” On my screen, I’d moved on further into the presentation at least seven slides further on.

Oops, my screen share had paused, I’d done this in error and was not aware of this. Therefore, I was yapping away for five minutes or more over a picture of a brain, possibly on a topic which had nothing in common with the brain!!

I received a lovely message following an event which said, thanks so much for the time you spent today giving us some takeaways for our mental positivity. Just seeing your wonderful smile all the way through made a huge difference to the day!

Messages such as this are heartfelt, and this is the very reason why I love what I do.

Adapting to this way of working has definitely been an enjoyable learning curve and who knows this may be the new way of working for many of us in the future.

If you know anyone in your world, friends, neighbours, work colleagues who you think would benefit from spending some time with me, please ask them to get in touch. I’d be delighted to arrange a free 30-minute consultation.

Telephone 0114 327 2683 or email enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk

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Working from Home Can Negatively Impact Your Mental Health & Wellbeing Unless You Act!!

workplace wellbeing mental health CovidDue to the current Coronavirus pandemic, many UK employees are now working from home for the foreseeable future. This will be the first experience for a huge amount of companies and employees.

Working from home has its advantages but being away from the office and social interaction of an office can take its toll.

Research by the Office of National Statistics highlights that 30% of UK employees worked from home during 2019.

Also, a United Nations report 2017 found that 41% of remote workers reported high-stress levels, compared to just 25% of office workers.

Remote working becomes the new norm for many; its imperative businesses change and put the appropriate mental health and wellbeing policies in place to ensure their employees feel part of the organisation and don’t become detached.

For some businesses forced to make the transition, they will have found themselves ill-equipped to deal with this change. They don’t have a wellbeing policy, managers don’t have regular meetings with their team, the environment is toxic, or there is a culture where there’s a lack of trust.

Employers are now having to pivot while learning new skills on how to manage a virtual workforce some with little or no experience.

I know of some employees who are currently furloughed and tempted to take advantage of this break from the norm where they felt stressed from work and suffer from mental health issues which they haven’t previously reported to their boss.

If you struggle with anxiety or depression, working from home has the potential to aggravate feelings of isolation and prolong inactivity.

6 Actions Managers Can Adopt to Improve the Wellbeing of Their Team – Home Working

  1. Enrol on an online management training course – I have managed remote teams, and from experience, it’s an entirely different skill. Organisations are having to rely on managers to rally the troops and keep everyone motivated. But this is in the backdrop of seven in 10 employers failing to train first-time managers, and the problem is widespread. With the Department of Business, Innovation and Skills estimating the cost of poor management and leadership to the UK economy at £19bn a year through lower productivity.

 

  1. Review your management style – In a remote working setting, there could be a tendency for managers to be task-orientated and too little on fostering relationships with their remote team. This kind of transactional management can be the route taken by managers who are task-orientated and want to get the tasks done but fail to acknowledge the importance of their team. Such a management approach can worsen the feeling that comes with remote working and can contribute to the stress of working from home.

 

  1. Introduce daily briefings – In a desperate attempt to become agile, and connect with employees now, who are working remotely. Some companies have introduced breakfast scrum meetings, whereby teams check in daily via video call to rally the troops, provide an update of company news and to check in on everyone’s wellbeing. It’s more important than ever that employers keep in touch daily with their team through telephone and video conferencing.

 

  1. Schedule daily 1-2-1’s – Seeing a friendly face on a video conferencing platform from work can go a long way to improving an employee’s wellbeing and confidence.

 

  1. Undertake an employee audit – reach out to your team, ask them how you can help, do they require any assistance or support. Make them aware of any employee benefits that they might be entitled to.

 

  1. Offer remote wellbeing for employees and family – This could be from an existing provider or an external source. I currently help businesses and charities with remote 1-2-1 coaching for their teams, guided meditation and a range of interactive activities which releases emotional, physical and mental stress and improves resilience.

How your team respond to remote working is entirely dependent on your ability to spot the individual triggers and understand their coping strategies.

If you would like some assistance or discuss how I can help you to develop your wellbeing or someone in your world that you know who requires support, please don’t hesitate to contact me.

Telephone 0114 327 2683 or email enquiries@mikelawrence.co.uk

Winner of one of the 2020 Best 3 Therapists Awards for the second year in a row

Mike Lawrence Holistic Therapies is celebrating – again! They had been recognised for the second year in a row by the Best 3 Awards this week for making a significant difference to local people’s lives. Mike’s mission is to empower people to achieve their aspirations in the workplace and everyday life. The award recognises that mission being made a reality. Against several factors, Mike has been voted one of the Best 3 Therapists in the Sheffield region.

All the therapists faced a rigorous 50-point inspection, which includes local reviews, history, trading standards, ratings, satisfaction, trust, price and their general excellence. Mike Lawrence Holistic Therapies yet again showed real strength in every area.

In the last year, Mike has developed the company to incorporate Mike Lawrence Wellbeing & Workplace Management Consultancy, a global consulting organisation with a difference. They are helping thousands of people in the workplace to achieve personal and business goals, as well as supporting employers to deliver more informed wellbeing support and behaviours. A lot of this consists of education and tools for managers, which the team deliver in-house to medium to large businesses across the country.

Mike told us ‘It means a lot when you set out to help people make small but impactful changes and they come back and tell you how big their strides forward are.

You always hope to exceed expectations but to be recognised for consistently exceeding is such great news for us. It’s been a really interesting year with the development for the workplace wellbeing offer, and to be honest, it’s taken off at some speed! We’re now able to help more people lead happier and healthier lives across the region and beyond’.

To read the inspection process in detail please click on the following link https://threebestrated.co.uk/therapists-in-sheffield

Elaine Godley - elastic FM, holistic therapist Sheffield

Elaine Godley Elastic FM Interview with Mike Lawrence

I was invited on to the show to talk about my holistic therapy journey and how I made the transition from the corporate business world into the health and wellbeing industry.
Elaine Godley - elastic FM, holistic therapist Sheffield
By Elaine Godley
I have beaten cancer four times and cured myself of serious kidney disease. A qualified Nutritionist, Psychologist, former Athlete and Business Consultant, I have an all-round appreciation from first -hand experience of what makes individuals and businesses tick, how to manage teams to achieve great results with less stress for everyone, and how to achieve and maintain your own Perfect Health. I volunteer on a cancer charity helpline and mentor people through their cancer journey, and host a radio-show Tuesdays 4-6 on Elastic FM.
Jon Covey Podcast - Life coach Sheffield

PODCAST #56 – MIKE LAWRENCE, MIND OVER MATTER

Jon Covey Podcast - Life coach Sheffield

Stress Management Expert, Consultant & Integrative Therapist Mike Lawrence shares his life journey.

Mike has spent a large number of years helping others thrive, be that in the workplace or their life. Today’s episode, Mike shares his journey, his stint at Butlins as a Redcoat and how he now helps to remove stress from your life.

Click on the link below to listen

https://joncovey.com/podcasts/mike-lawrence-mind-over-matter/